So think hard about what it is you might not want to be thinking about, the impending death of a parent or other loved one, financial troubles, whatever

Whenever you start thinking about the neighbor, think about the thing you’re probably avoiding and then let it go. posted by Ironmouth at PM on [9 favorites]

You’ll probably hate this advice, but I generally find that the easiest way for me to get over a crush – perhaps especially those of the potentially dangerous “omg-I’m-SO-attracted” variety – is to tell my partner. Yup. . And, conversely, can also build intimacy with your partner.

“Honey. I have something on my chest I need to share with you.. Understand that I love you very much and our marriage means the world to me. Ler mais